Is She Asking For It?

Ask yourself this question: 

If a woman is topless, let's say on a beach, is she asking to be raped? 

Does a man, turned on by her bare breasts, have a right to violate her body? I mean, she's completely topless! Boobs! Everywhere! What's a man to do? (Or lesbian)

Nothing. 

The answer is nothing. The sight of her bare breasts is not an invitation for physical contact. 

Think what you will. But do not touch her body. And do not verbally comment on her body. 

She does not have any responsibility to control your thoughts or feelings about her body. She has a responsibility to herself only. 

I personally do not have any friends comfortable enough to go topless or exposed in public, but I will defend their damn right to do so if they wish. 

It's the same principal as a mini-skirt not being an invitation to touch. Modesty is a personal choice just like over-bearing clothes.  They both mean the same thing: they are clothes. I personally prefer modesty (sometimes) but that does not mean anything for anyone else. It's my choice. (I like mystery over a big display) 

Don't feel bad for men that have to control themselves. They're adults. Women have the same responsibility to not violate a bare chested man as a man to a bare chested woman. I think some bare chested men are damn sexy but NO touchy-touchy!! 

Keep the paws and the thoughts to   yourself.